When this happens you have the option to leave it there. You can allow the hostility to endure and infect every activity you have with that person forever.
Or... You can push through "go f#*k yourself."
Depending which side of the conversation you're on, you can choose to lay the brunt of your feelings aside or you could face up to the hostile party and see if you can move forward.
Either way, you have the choice to sit with the hostility or try to push beyond.
Most often, the only way to reconciliation or healing requires that you dare to push through "go f#*k yourself."
Of course, just like Louie Theroux does in his My Scientology Movie when confronted with the immortal phrase "go f#*k yourself" with the retort "I'll consider myself f#*ked then."
But, while funny, this doesn't help restore the relationship...