I never went trick-or-treating as a kid. It had nothing to do with religion, as my parents didn’t attend church, it just wasn’t done amongst my friends or in my neighbourhood.
I’m only in my early thirties, but even I have to admit that times seem to have changed. Quickly.
Halloween is getting increasingly difficult to ignore. It’s in shops, day-care centres, kindergartens and (you’ve probably noticed!) schools.
Each year there seems to be an increasing number of trick-or-treaters.
And… Halloween’s not going away…
So, how should parents respond to Halloween?
Is it nothing but harmless fun or evil-incarnate? A sugar-fuelled time of enjoyment or a corrupting influence?
If you ask Google, you get approximately 31,100,000 results in just 0.24 seconds.This short article isn’t about giving you a definitive answer, but instead, provide information to help you arrive at a decision which is most appropriate for what you and your family believe to be important.
Halloween raises, for many, two potential issues resolving around culture and faith…First, no matter what your beliefs may be, should those in Australia celebrate Halloween, a tradition closer associated with North America.
And, if you’re a Christian, is it appropriate to celebrate Halloween and what options are there to respond?
In order to make some informed decisions, it makes sense to quickly take a closer look at what Halloween is…
HISTORY... Why Halloween?
Two traditions hide behind Halloween.
Halloween falls on October 31, the day before the church celebrates and remembers All Saints’/All Hallows Day. On this date, the church recalls and recognises the important people of faith, both past and present – near and far, who have been significant in a personal and communal faith journey. Halloween is an abbreviation of All Hallows Eve.
But the oldest tradition comes from the Celts who marked the New Year, and change of the seasons, by celebrating Samhain. Details can be confusing, but it was believed that the spiritual and physical realms overlapped during that night and the spirits could then walk the earth. People put on scary masks and lit bonfires to scare away evil spirits.
Like other Christian festivals, the church utilised a date of previous observance or celebration to mark a significant date on the calendar.
Should this history be a problem?
To begin, if might be wise to consider, for yourself, your family and your neighbours, what Halloween means today. Does it still revolve around Druid rituals?Unless you have a concern about the dates of other Christian festivals and the symbols used, like the Christmas tree - a tradition which can be traced back to ‘pagan’ customs, then Halloween need not cause immediate apprehension.
But Halloween does raise some modern questions…
CONNECTION... A Safe Opportunity?
To start, is the idea of knocking on strangers’ doors safe for your kids?Doesn’t trick-or-treating go against “Stranger Danger”?
Well supervised, trick-or-treating can be relatively safe, especially if done in local communities, amongst people your family already have a relationship with.If done thoughtfully, Halloween can be a fantastic opportunity to connect with the parents of children’s friends, other families and your neighbours.
Second, do my kids need to dress provocatively?
Of course not. You control what they do and don’t wear. You don’t need to allow your child to dress as a ghost, witch, the devil or an overtly revealing costume if it makes you uncomfortable. There are plenty of alternate costume options.
But, is this something we really need to do in Australia?
You have complete freedom to choose what you do on Halloween.But Halloween is celebrated in many parts of the world, particularly the United Kingdom, Europe and, of course, the United States.
Some would point to the vast number of imported traditions, North American and otherwise, we’ve embraced and see little wrong with Halloween being yet another event in a multicultural society.
FAITH... Discernment and Conscience.
If you’re a person of faith, Halloween can be problematic with a quick Google search producing 1,3200,000 results for “What should Christians do on Halloween?” Unsurprisingly, opinions differ wildly.
If, in the surroundings of your family, community and church, it would be unwise to partake in Halloween, then, by all means, give it a miss. God would not want you to do something you cannot do in good faith (Romans 14:3). Instead, stay home and have a quiet night in.
Alternatively, if you can think of no reason which would prevent you from participating in Halloween, or no one who would be hindered by your participation, then feel free to get involved as much as you’re comfortable in doing so (Ephesians 5:15-16, Colossians 4::3).
Being guided by your conscience and the Spirit of God would be a good indicator of what you should do on October 31.If you’re looking for an alternate way to get involved in Halloween, you might want to check out haloeen.com
The bible says in 1 Corinthians 10:31 - So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.Our desire in life should be to please God, with Halloween being no exception.
But whatever you decide, if one has put considerable thought into their participation in Halloween and come to a different conclusion as you, it is not your (or my) place to judge them (Romans 1:1-5).