I've written before that youth group leaders should strive to achieve no higher than bronze in any game which is played. Ideally, leaders should never win an activity outright - using their advanced experience, co-ordination and general skill - sine they have an unfair advantage.
In a team situation, you shouldn't skew the game heavily in your favour just because you've played a few hundred games of dodgeball and have literally practiced throwing a ball at an unsuspecting victim thousands of times.
But, there is a time when you can crush a teen in competition.
When they challenge you.
If you challenge me at pool or snooker... I'll normally win. Decisively.
If you challenge me at table tennis... I won't go easy on you.
If you challenge me in a game like boggle, I might allow you to get close.
Now, in light of the "manipulation" which may be required to avoid winning, you might feel like you're hustling the kids...
And sure, if a kid's at youth group for the first time, you might not want to mercilessly wipe the floor with them...
But for a regular teen with the gall to call you out (especially teenage boys!)?
Let the light-hearted humbling begin...
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