Should parents fell bad about skipping church during the school holidays?

I’ve usually skipped church with my kids during the school holidays.

When I worked for a church, I usually expected the same.

So, should a parent feel guilty about their school-holiday endured absence?

Not according to the Tiny Bible Bit which I just wrote…

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 - These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

If you have a family with younger children, then there’s a decent chance that it’s been a few weeks since you’ve attended church.

It’s understandable.

Many churches shut down their Sunday morning children’s ministry activities while the school holidays are on (as they are in Australia, and will be for the rest of the month).

So, should churches fell like they are spiritually neglecting the youngest members of their flock?

Deuteronomy 6 doesn’t think so.

Why? 

Because the primary spiritual direction a child should receive (ideally) is within the home.

The parents should be living out their faith in front of their children.

The parents should be sharing the stories of faith with their children.

The parents, just through the regular processes of the day, should be intersecting life and spirituality often.

Of course, the children’s ministry of a church should play a significant role in helping nurture the fledgling spirituality of a child, but Deuteronomy 6 stresses that this should stretch far beyond a few hours on a Sunday.

Am I a better theologian as a teacher or as a youth minister?

You would think that the answer was simple… I was a better theologian while in vocational ministry.

I’m not completely convinced.

Sure, while I gave plenty of talks and sermons while in ministry, there was only a certain depth or detail which these could effectively delve into.

Very few people wish to hear a sermon on the six alternative theories on the humanity/divinity of Christ.

Even fewer teenagers want to hear that talk.

Yet, in my studies of religion course, I teach a lesson on this exact point.

I’m fact, for the year 11’s they do a Christianity unit which includes the deep theological issues such as the incarnation, God’s revelation and the trinity.

Over the course of the year, I touch on suffering, creation, death, judgement, salvation, church leadership, denominational formations and a whole lot more.

For my year 12’s, I’ll be delving into the subject of the Reformation, baptism and sexual ethics.

Of course, this neglects the numerous non-Christian topics which I’ll be covering!

I would never cover this much ground in a congregational setting.

It would be unreasonable to ask as much.

While, pastorally, my load in the school context is minimal (which must be taken into account), the sheer amount of theology I need to digest and ask for my students to interact with - year after year - surely results in me needing to be a sharper theologian in the secular context.

Interesting is not the aim of the pulpit

Hopefully, when I come away from hearing a sermon, I don’t have either of the following reactions…

That was interesting.

That was clever.

Neither of these should be my lingering reaction.

Why?

Because I shouldn’t, primarily, be academically impressed by what was shared from the pulpit on a Sunday.

Of course, everything should hold up to academic scrutiny, but I shouldn’t feel like I’ve just heard an impressive university lecture.

A sermon should encourage.

A sermon should convict.

A sermon should be faithful to the biblical text.

Most of all, a sermon should point someone towards Jesus.

What it need not be is an intellectual spectacle or an intriguing thought experiment.

Education & Faith share the same analogy

Both are like fire.

Both need a spark to be ignited.

Both light up the world around you.

Both need to remain fed to keep going.

Both can provide comfort.

Both can spread.

Both can be abused.

Both can transform.

Both can be snuffed out.

As either a teacher or a minister, it is your role to ignite, illuminate, stoke, and protect the flame of the young person in front of you.