Last term the small group I attend looked at the topic of spiritual gifts.
As we were talking about the gift of tongues, I wasn’t so sure where I stood about Jesus speaking in tongues.
Of course, as someone with the Holy Spirit within them, and being God incarnate, Jesus could have spoken in tongues - no matter which definition you use (be they a completely unknown language or a tongue you previously didn’t know).
The query that Jesus spoke in tongues hung with me for a few days and the internet was less than helpful.
Often, the responses would included references to places like Mark 8:12, where Jesus just groans.
I’m not sure this counts...
But, I think the answer lies in the previous chapter - Mark 7:34.
For, if Jesus is God incarnate then, surely, His “mother language” is a heavenly one.
Thus, a “foreign” language would be any one He spoke on earth.
So, while I suggest that Jesus did speak in tongues, they would be in the form of “ordinary” language, which could be understood by those around Him, not the inverse - a heavenly language which could be used to communicate with God.
DISCLAIMER: ALL RAMBLINGS ARE MY OWN. THEY IN NO WAY REPRESENT THE VIEWS OF ANY CHURCH OR ORGANISATION THAT I HAVE WORKED FOR OR AM CURRENTLY ASSOCIATED WITH...
Monday, September 30, 2019
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
What do you do if your minister doesn’t like you?
Some ministers are delightful.
Others can be a little jaded, even if only periodically.
Most, hopefully, are somewhere in the middle of not closer to the former.
But, no matter the disposition of your minister, what do you do if they don’t like you?
Seriously.
No matter if it’s due to a personality clash, theological differences or birthed from an event/misunderstanding in the past, no congregant has the absolute right to be adored by their minister.
And, having a minister who isn’t besotted by you isn’t a crime on their part.
While your minister shouldn’t be a jerk to you, instead caring for you as a member of the flock God has placed them over to shepherd, you don’t have to be their favourite person.
So what do you do then?
In part, if they are not your primary pastoral support, you may not need to do anything dramatic. Just be peaceable. Better yet, support the minister and serve the church just as you would otherwise.
Additionally, you could use this as a goad to evaluate yourself. Maybe your minister is seeing things which you are blind to. Maybe this minister will be a catalyst for you to change.
Alternatively, you could just seek to outlast the minister. Don’t leave the church. Don’t undermine him. Instead, cut them some slack and beware that this person, probably, won’t be your minister forever.
Of course, you could seek to gently try to change their perception about you. It may not work, but you could intentionally seek to sow encouragement and support into the life of your distant minister. With the passing of time closeness may develop.
No matter what happens, the most important thing to remember is that the ministers’ view of you doesn’t give or take from you any validation. As a Christian we find our identity, worth, value and validation from Jesus.
Not from anyone else. Including any minister you may encounter.
Others can be a little jaded, even if only periodically.
Most, hopefully, are somewhere in the middle of not closer to the former.
But, no matter the disposition of your minister, what do you do if they don’t like you?
Seriously.
No matter if it’s due to a personality clash, theological differences or birthed from an event/misunderstanding in the past, no congregant has the absolute right to be adored by their minister.
And, having a minister who isn’t besotted by you isn’t a crime on their part.
While your minister shouldn’t be a jerk to you, instead caring for you as a member of the flock God has placed them over to shepherd, you don’t have to be their favourite person.
So what do you do then?
In part, if they are not your primary pastoral support, you may not need to do anything dramatic. Just be peaceable. Better yet, support the minister and serve the church just as you would otherwise.
Additionally, you could use this as a goad to evaluate yourself. Maybe your minister is seeing things which you are blind to. Maybe this minister will be a catalyst for you to change.
Alternatively, you could just seek to outlast the minister. Don’t leave the church. Don’t undermine him. Instead, cut them some slack and beware that this person, probably, won’t be your minister forever.
Of course, you could seek to gently try to change their perception about you. It may not work, but you could intentionally seek to sow encouragement and support into the life of your distant minister. With the passing of time closeness may develop.
No matter what happens, the most important thing to remember is that the ministers’ view of you doesn’t give or take from you any validation. As a Christian we find our identity, worth, value and validation from Jesus.
Not from anyone else. Including any minister you may encounter.
Tuesday, September 3, 2019
Should you ever be a ministry expert?
In ministry you can be experienced.
You can be a veteran.
You can be trained.
You can be well-read.
I don’t think you can truely be an expert.
Or at least you should be weary of someone who deems themselves a ministry expert.
Why?
Because stagnation, or worse, arrogance is the danger of someone with the expert mindset.
For culturally relevant ministry is fluid.
Technology is exponentially advancing.
What worked a decade ago needs reevaluating and, often, reimagining.
Thus, everyone in ministry must always be learning.
Never should someone in ministry think that they are an expert and have learnt everything.
You can be a veteran.
You can be trained.
You can be well-read.
I don’t think you can truely be an expert.
Or at least you should be weary of someone who deems themselves a ministry expert.
Why?
Because stagnation, or worse, arrogance is the danger of someone with the expert mindset.
For culturally relevant ministry is fluid.
Technology is exponentially advancing.
What worked a decade ago needs reevaluating and, often, reimagining.
Thus, everyone in ministry must always be learning.
Never should someone in ministry think that they are an expert and have learnt everything.
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