Before you speak up...

I'm currently writing up the small group questions for this coming Friday night where we'll be looking at James 3.

One thing which I couldn't squeeze in, but will probably mention in the talk is the following...

Before you speak... Ask yourself...

Are my words true?
Are my words necessary?
Are my words in the other person's best interest?

A lot of fires spread by the tongue wouldn't be lit if we just posed these questions.