The people who MUST lead a Sunday morning children’s ministry

In writing this, I do so as the following….

A parent of two school-aged children.

Someone who, unpaid, leads the children’s ministry program at my kids church.

Someone who, while employed, ran Sunday School/the kids/teens program on Sunday mornings for nearly a decade-and-a-half.

Someone who has always had the following nagging feeling.

And, I know what I write next won’t be popular.

Nonetheless…

No one should be paid to actively run activities/ministry on a Sunday morning for kids.

Now, this may be an idealistic pipe dream. 

A fantasy.

An ecclesiastical utopia. 

A declaration which rides in the face of decades of ministry.

An idea which shouts against the expectations of churches.

A challenge to those needing to justify their church pay-check.

But, it is my solid belief that the primary ministers and spiritual teachers/examples for children should be their parents. 

Sure, in rare cases children will arrive at church without a believing parent or guardian, but your atypical youngster will only darken the church doors with a churchgoing caretaker.

Thus, their spiritual instructions should fall primary upon their shoulders.

And this shouldn’t merely involve opening their wallets and paying for “a professional” to minister to their kids.

It should include, periodically, volunteering to be actively involved in the ministry to the youth.

I don’t expect that a parent will take on the primary burden every week or fortnight,but if a church has a dozen or more kids, then the parents should be willing to take it in turns to share the gospel.

Now, this will be controversial since some parents don’t especially like kids who aren’t their own.

Or don’t think that they’re very good at the “kids stuff.”

But, if you’re a parent, then you have a responsibility nonetheless.

While some in leadership on a Sunday will feel the need to justify their presence or employment, a youth/children’s minister can still be completely justified by having them resource, equip and train the parents on a Sunday morning. The paid staff will still run midweek and outreach activities. They can even retain giving the address in church before the congregation.

But, parents should bear the weight of spiritually educating their kids.

The parents should have a burden upon them to be caring adults in the lives of the youngsters at church. They should want to be a part of the new numbers which matter in church.

The parents should feel the responsibility to invest in the kids who share church with their progeny.

Even if they don’t feel a strong sense of call.

Or equiped.

Or capable.

If they feel ill-prepared, then they may want to reconsider their own Christian discipleship and consider it a warning bell to be ready to spiritually lead their offspring.