Dating nervousness

One of my first posts was about Crushes in Youth Ministry Leadership, which makes sense since I've also written about the reasons of Wisdom, Compatibility, Influence, Example for Christians to date fellow believers.

In reality, under the "you don't buy a bikini fro a hardware store" principal, this limits the places a believer can meet a suitable partner.
Obviously, one place would be your home church.

Which can lead to dating nervousness from the church leadership.

Nervousness when youth group kids date.
Nervousness when youth group co-leaders date.
Nervousness when key lay-leaders pair off.

Nervousness, because relationships are messy...

Nervousness because, if things turn sour, someone (possibly) will lose the church in the divorce.