Solutions and balances

I would like to say that I'm your typical guy. In that respect, i like to solve problems.

If you tell me about how bad things are at work, or what difficulties you are having at church, then i will view them as problems to be resolved.

The trouble? Everything isn't a problem. Everything doesn't need a solution. Some things are tensions.

Tensions need to be balanced, not solved.

The trouble? Working out which is which...