The final reason that a believer hears when it is known that they aim to be a virgin till their married is... Doesn't this restrict the people that you can date?
My answer? It will and it will need to be a sacrifice that you are deciding to make. Man-whores would not be a wise to date... But, if your personal ambition is to be a virgin on your wedding night, it doesn't necessarily mean that you can only date other virgins.
Sure, it may be easier if you decide this and share that desire, but you're not forced to make that commitment.
If that person is willing to respect and honour your wishes, then it is fine to date them. This will be the other thing that thins out the field.
Finally, just because you may choose to not date everyone, doesn't mean that you need to be a social leper or have to shun those who you wouldn't date.
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